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Beautiful Boy: a Father’s Journey through His Son’s Addiction.
David Sheff, $26.95
At its heart Beautiful Boy is
an amazingly honest and exquisitely written account of a family’s
torturous journey through addiction. It raises questions that reflect
the fears of every parent: Where does one’s responsibility to a
loved one end? How—and when—should a parent know whether his or
her child is substance abusing? And how does a family recover from
the wounds afflicted by addiction and get on with their lives? David
Sheff has written a powerful and moving family portrait that will
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The Blessing of
a B Minus: Using Jewish Teachings to Raise Resilient Teenagers.
Wendy Mogel, $17.00
With her warmth, wit, and signature combination of Jewish teachings and psychological research, Wendy Mogel helps parents to ably navigate the often rough journey through the teenage years and guide children to becoming confident, resilient young adults. By viewing the frustrating and worrisome elements of adolescence as "blessings," Mogel reveals that they are in fact necessary steps in psychological growth and character development to be met with faith, detachment, and a sense of humor rather than over-involvement and anxiety. Mogel gives parents the tools to do so and offers reassuring spiritual and ethical advice. |
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Bringing Up Parents:
the Teenager’s Handbook. Alex Packer, $22.95
Straight talk and specific suggestions on how teens can take the initiative
to resolve conflicts with parents, improve family relationships, earn
trust, accept responsibility, and help to create a healthier, happier
home environment. Written with wisdom and humor, this book emphasizes
open communication, mutual respect, and common sense. |
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But Nobody Told Me
I'd Ever Have to Leave Home: from Toddlers to Teens — How Parents
Can Raise Children to Become Capable Adults. Kathy Lynn, $18.95
Letting go is an often difficult aspect
of parenting. But Nobody Told Me I'd Ever Have to Leave Home
examines a parent's influence over a child's playtime, temperament,
friendships, and disappointments, and offers suggestions on when
to let children make their own decisions. Covering all stages in
a child's life — from toddlers to teenagers and on to the post-secondary
years — Lynn offers practical advice to parents that will help their
children develop into capable adults. |
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The Canadian Student Financial
Survival Guide: a Comprehensive Handbook on Financing Your Education,
Managing Your Expenses & Planning for a Debt-Free Future.
Graham McWaters & Winthrop Sheldon, $21.95
Students today are faced with ever-rising
costs of tuition, and the decisions made as to how to pay for school
can be some of the most important a young person makes. The costs
for college or university are prohibitive to some and very intimidating
to others. It is critical for students to have a handle on their
finances, have a plan to eliminate these fears and embark on a life
of financial freedom. The Canadian Student Financial Survival
Guide will show them how to do this. Includes valuable information
on:
- student loan applications and other
means of financing post-secondary education
- credit-card issues
- car leasing vs. car buying
- accommodation
- budgeting for school and beyond
- and many other issues for students
faced with their first major financial decisions
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The
Connected Father: Understanding Your Unique Role and Responsibilities
During Your Child’s Adolescence. Carl Pickhardt, $16.95
Psychologist Carl Pickhardt believes
that fathers need to become informed about the changes and challenges
that come with their child’s adolescence. To help caring fathers
navigate the often perplexing stages of adolescence, The Connected
Father describes:
- how fathers can learn to be better
listeners
- different emotional changes between
mid- and late-adolescence
- how to encourage independence while
setting limits
- how fathers can talk to teens about
drugs, sex, the internet and relationships
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Connected Parenting: How to Raise a Great Kid. Jennifer Kolari, $19.00 
Connected Parenting offers a unique form of therapeutic parenting based on Kolari's groundbreaking application of the concept of "mirroring," an instinctive process that helps parents bond with their children and promotes optimum growth and development. Kolari's strategy is highly effective for kids of all ages, and has been proven to reduce a child's anxiety, increase self-esteem, and allow children to become more resilient and flexible. With step-by-step advice and examples from Kolari's years of experience, this is an easy-to-follow guide to strengthening the bond between you and your children. |
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Crashproof
Your Kids: Make Your Teen a Safer, Smarter Driver. Timothy
Smith, $27.00
In Crashproof Your Kids, certified
driving instructor and dad Timothy Smith has combined the collective
wisdom of numerous experts to develop the Crashproof Plan: a series
of behind-the-wheel exercises designed to improve your teen's driving
awareness, behavior, and skills. Written in a highly accessible,
informal, and often humorous style, this comprehensive plan begins
where drivers' education programs end. |
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Do I Get My Allowance Before or After
I'm Grounded? Vanessa van Petten, $17.50
Stop fighting, start talking and get to
know your teen. |
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Escaping the Endless Adolescence: How We Can Help Our Teenagers
Grow Up Before They Grow Old. Joseph Allen & Claudia
Worrell Allen, $29.95 Today’s teens are starved for the lost fundamentals they
need to really grow: adult connections and the adult rewards of
autonomy, competence, and mastery. Restoring these will help them
unlearn their adolescent helplessness and grow into adults who
can make you–and themselves–proud. With compelling
examples and practical and profound suggestions, Escaping the
Endless Adolescence outlines a novel approach for producing
dramatic leaps forward in teen maturity. |
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From
Binge to Blackout: a Mother and Son Struggle with Teen Drinking.
Chris Volkmann & Toren Volkmann, $19.50
Throughout his college years, Toren Volkmann
partied like there was no tomorrow, having what was supposed to
be the time of his life. Like so many parents, his mother, Chris,
overlooked Toren’s growing alcohol problem. But when he graduated,
Toren realized he’d become a full-blown alcoholic. And he was not
alone.
Considered a rite of passage, teenage drinking has skyrocketed to
epidemic proportions, fostering a generation of young adults whose
lives are already beginning to come apart under the strain. This
book, written from the viewpoints of both mother and son, is a riveting,
enlightening, and heartbreakingly true story of a family that was
able to confront the fear, pain, and denial that threatened to destroy
them—and survive the epidemic of teenage drinking that’s putting
America’s future at risk.
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The Gap-Year
Advantage: Helping Your Child Benefit from Time Off Before or During
College. Karl Haigler & Rae Nelson, $17.95
Taking time off before or during college
or university can offer some students the opportunity to gain focus
and discipline, learn to set goals, get real-world experience and
ultimately get the most out of a college education. The Gap-Year
Advantage provides parents with all the advice, tips and information
they need to help students develop and implement a strategy for
themselves. |
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Generation
Me: Why Today's Young Americans Are More Confident, Assertive, Entitled
and More Miserable Than Ever Before. Jean Twenge, $16.99
They are today's young people, a new
generation with sky-high expectations and a need for constant praise
and fulfillment. In this provocative new book, headline-making psychologist
and social commentator Dr. Jean Twenge documents the self-focus
of what she calls Generation Me - people born in the 1970s, 1980s,
and 1990s. Dr. Twenge explores why her generation is tolerant, confident,
open-minded, and ambitious but also cynical, depressed, lonely,
and anxious … Engaging, controversial, prescriptive, and often funny,
Generation Me will give Boomers new insight into their
offspring, and help GenMe'ers in their teens, 20s, and 30s finally
make sense of themselves and their goals and find their road to
happiness. |
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Get Out of My Life, but
First Could You Drive Me and Cheryl to the Mall? A Parent's Guide
to the New Teenager. Anthony Wolf, $16.50
This is a newly revised and updated version of the best-selling classic
book on raising adolescents. Dr. Anthony Wolf gives parents a humorous,
wise and practical guide to the changing roles parents and the rapidly
changing world of adolescence. |
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Getting to Calm: Cool-headed
Strategies for Parenting Tweens & Teens. Laura Kastner
& Jennifer Wyatt, $20.95
Getting to Calm is
a practical, realistic and ultimately reassuring guide to navigating
one of the most challenging aspects of parenting today: staying
calm and clear-headed during some of the most common hot-button
situations that arise during the teen years. With humor, wisdom
and a deep understanding of the teenaged brain, Drs. Kastner and
Wyatt provide clear and useful tools for parents, giving them effective
new ways to manage their own emotions in the heat of the moment with their teen while maintaining — and
even gaining — closeness. |
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Good to
Go: a Practical Guide to Adulthood.
Kim Zarzour & Sharon McKay, $24.00 
From acclaimed author Sharon McKay and
long-time Star journalist Kim Zarzour—both mothers of teens—comes
the indispensable guide for teens and young adults leaving home
for the first time. Whether you’ve locked yourself out of your apartment,
clogged the drain, need to attend a wedding or funeral, there is
no question or concern too trivial for Good to Go to tackle
with competence, humour, and respect. It’s Mom in a book! |
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Helping Teens
Who Cut: Understanding and Ending Self-Injury. Michael Hollander,
$16.50
From a leading authority on adolescent
self-injury, this reassuring parent guide explains what motivates
cutting and how various treatments can provide effective routes
to wellness. The book gives parents crucial information on how self-injury
differs from suicidal behavior, ways to talk to teens about cutting
without making it worse, and practical steps they can take to help
teens cope with extreme emotions. Mental health professionals and
students also will appreciate the book as an accessible overview
of state-of-the-science treatment principles. |
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Helping Your Transgender Teen: a
Guide for Parents. Irwin Krieger, $14.50
HELPING YOUR TRANSGENDER TEEN begins
with the basic information you and your family need. The central chapters of
the book address the fears and concerns most parents of transgender teens
share. The final chapters guide you through the steps you can take to discover
what is best for your child. Although written for parents, this book is also
useful for pediatricians, therapists, educators and others who work with
teenagers and young adults. HELPING YOUR TRANSGENDER TEEN provides answers to
many of your questions about adolescent gender identity. |
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How to Talk So Teens
Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk. Adele Faber &
Elaine Mazlish, $16.50
The renowned #1 New York Times bestselling
authors share their advice and expertise with parents and teens
in this accessible, indispensable guide to surviving adolescence.
Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish transformed parenting with their
breakthrough, bestselling books Siblings Without Rivalry
and How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will
Talk. Now, they return with this essential guide that tackles
the tough issues teens and parents face today. Filled with straightforward
advice and written in their trademark, down-to-earth style sure
to appeal to both parents and teens, this all-new volume offers
both innovative, easy-to-implement suggestions and proven techniques
to build the foundation for lasting relationships. From curfews
and cliques to sex and drugs, it gives parents the tools to help
their children safely navigate the often stormy years of adolescence.
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I Wanna Be
Sedated: 30 Writers on Parenting Teenagers. Faith Conlon &
Gail Hudson, editors, $21.50
Teenagers — they roam in packs, mope silently in their rooms, sneak
out, talk back, sneer, yell, roll their eyes, and think their parents
just might be the dumbest creatures on Earth. Raising a teen is perhaps
the most challenging phase of childrearing, a time when kids push
every known hot button and wreak havoc with carefully thought-out
parenting strategies. I Wanna Be Sedated brings a sense of
humor and perspective to some of the deepest worries of parents …
Featuring dynamic, top-caliber writing, this delightful collection
speaks to the challenging, exhilarating, and occasionally mind-blowing
task of parenting teenagers. |
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I'd Listen to My Parents If They'd
Just Shut Up: What to Say and Not Say When Parenting Teens. Anthony Wolf, $16.99
Is there any aspect of parenting more
frustrating than when even the simplest conversation with your teenager quickly
deteriorates into a take-no-prisoners war? Psychologist Anthony Wolf
sympathizes, and in his new book he provides hope, humor, and practical tips
for dealing with the everyday challenges of raising teens in the twenty-first
century.
I'D LISTEN TO MY PARENTS IF THEY'D JUST
SHUT UP will help you understand who your teenagers really are under all the
attitude, and what new rules apply to successfully communicating with them in
today's constantly evolving world of the Internet, electronics, and social
media. Designed to make life with your teenage child a significantly more
enjoyable experience, the book offers specific scenarios to illustrate which
responses will work and which ones are doomed to failure the next time your 13-to-19-year-old
refuses to listen or won't take "no" for an answer. |
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If
Your Adolescent Has an Anxiety Disorder: an Essential Resource for
Parents. Edna Foa & Linda Wasmer Andrews, $10.95
Growing up can be stressful for any teenager,
but it is considerably harder for the many adolescents who develop
an anxiety disorder. If Your Adolescent Has an Anxiety Disorder
provides adult readers with the clinical information and practical
advice they need to understand and help the teen. Knowing the right
information about anxiety disorders is the first step towards helping
adolescents who are dealing with them grow to become healthy, happy
adults. |
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I'm, Like, So Fat!
Helping Your Teen Make Healthy Choices about Eating and Exercise
in a Weight-Obsessed World. Dianne Neumark-Sztainer, $18.50
Author Dr. Dianne Neumark-Sztainer shows
parents how to strike the difficult balance between bolstering self-esteem
and offering constructive advice. I'm, Like, So Fat! offers
a wealth of science-based, practical ideas for instilling healthy
eating and exercise habits, educating teens about nutrition and portion
size, and talking about body image. Here is a rock-solid foundation
that parents everywhere can build on to help their teens stay fit,
eat well, and feel good about their looks in a world where too-perfect
bodies are used to sell everything from cosmetic surgery to fast food.
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In Love and In
Danger: a Teen’s Guide to Breaking Free of Abusive Relationships.
Barrie Levy, $16.95
This book is for teenagers and parents
of teens who have questions about abusive dating relationships.
In Love and In Danger helps teens understand abusive dating
situations, decide how to deal with them and learn how to get help.
Providing useful information, practical advice and revealing interviews
with teens, this newly revised edition includes a new afterword
for parents and a resource sections with information on books, websites
and organizations teens can turn to for help.
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Inside the Teenage Brain: Parenting a Work in Progress. Sheryl Feinstein, $27.95
Teenagers are perplexing, intriguing, and spirited creatures. In an attempt to discover the secrets to their thoughts and actions, parents have tried talking, cajoling, and begging them for answers. What was once thought to be hormones run amuck can now be explained with modern medical technology.
MRI and PET scans view the human brain while it is alive and functioning. To no one's surprise, the teenage brain is under heavy construction! These discoveries are helping parents understand the (until now) unexplainable teenager. Inside the Teenage Brain explains the neuroscience that can help parents adjust to the highs and lows of teenage behavior and the trials and tribulations of adolescence that give teenagers a chance to develop and create the brain they will take into adulthood. |
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Letting Go with Love and Confidence. Kenneth Ginsburg, $21.00
Raising responsible, resilient,
self-sufficient teens in the 21st century — with expert advice on
parenting through cell phones, the Internet, peer pressure, dating, driving and
more. |
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A Moment’s Peace for Parents of Teens: 365 Rejuvenating
Reflections. Patricia Hoolihan, $12.95
A Moment’s Peace for Parents of Teens
offers a brief, daily time-out to recharge your batteries and meet
the challenges of parenting teens. |
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My Girl:
Adventures with a Teen in Training. Karen Stabiner, $32.95
Girls have gotten a bad rap. A wave of
books over the last several years has given the impression that
most girls lose their self-esteem during puberty, develop eating
disorders, become bullies and lose respect for their parents. As
a result, many parents dread the onset of adolescence and the teenage
years that lie ahead. According to acclaimed journalist Karen Stabiner,
girls have become marginalized by a caricature that only fits a
small minority of genuinely troubled girls. In her engaging new
book, My Girl, Stabiner documents her life with her adolescent daughter;
digs deeper into the research on girls, and interviews many mothers
and daughters. The result is a refreshing and honest account of
what adolescent girls are really like and how parents can cope with
the inevitable difficulties while also enjoying this remarkable
time with their daughters. A winning combination of poignant — and
often funny — memoir and first-rate journalism, My Girl reclaims
our daughters and empowers mothers to create a better relationship
with them. |
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My Teenage Werewolf: a Mother, a
Daughter, a Journey through the Thicket of Adolescence. Lauren Kessler, $17.50
With the eye of a reporter, the
curiosity of an anthropologist, and the open (and sometimes wounded) heart of a
mother, award-winning author Lauren Kessler embeds herself in her
about-to-be-teenage daughter's life. In seventh- and eighth-grade classrooms,
at home, online, at the mall, and at summer camp, Kessler observes,
investigates, chronicles — and participates in — the life of a 21st century
teen. Funny, poignant, and insightful, MY TEENAGE WEREWOLF explores the
fascinating and scary world of today's teenage girls. |
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Not Much Just
Chillin' — the Hidden Lives of Middle Schoolers. Linda Perlstein,
$21.00
A parent's guide to the
baffling no-man's land between child and teen. |
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Parenting
at the Speed of Teens: Positive Tips on Everyday Issues.
Ruth Tasswel, editor. $16.50
Parenting at the Speed of Teens is a practical,
easy-to-use guide that offers positive, commonsense strategies for
dealing with both the everyday issues of parenting teenagers—junk
food, the Internet, stress, jobs, friends, and other serious issues
teens may encounter—depression, divorce, racism, substance abuse.
It illustrates how the daily "little things" such as talking
one-on-one, setting boundaries, offering guidance, and modeling
positive behavior make a big difference in helping a teenager be
successful during these challenging, exciting years of adolescence.
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Parenting
the Teenage Brain: Understanding a Work in Progress. Sheryl
Feinstein, $23.95
New and exciting light is being shed
on these mysterious young people who have replaced the sweet children
you knew. What was once thought to be hormones run amuck can now
be explained with the help of modern medical technology, such as
MRI and PET scans. To no one's surprise, it seems the teenage brain
is still under construction. Understanding the neuroscience behind
a teen’s development can help parents adjust to the highs and lows
of adolescent behavior. |
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The Path to Purpose: How Young People
Find Their Calling in Life. William Damon, $19.99
The Path to Purpose looks at
youth who are thriving — highly
engaged in activities they love and developing a clear sense
of what they want to do with their lives — and youth who
are still rudderless, at serious risk of never fulfilling their
potential. What makes the difference? Based on in-depth interviews,
Damon offers compelling portraits of the young people who are
thriving. He identifies the nine key factors that have
made the difference for them, presenting simple but powerful
methods that parents can employ in order to cultivate that energized
sense of purpose in young people that will launch them on the
path to a deeply satisfying and productive life. |
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Rage, Rebellion
and Rudeness: Parenting Teenagers in the New Millenium. G. Scott
Wooding, $24.95
While there are many solutions available when it comes to dealing
with the problems presented by adolescents none is more important
than remaining cool…in providing specific solutions to specific problems,
Dr. Wooding tells his readers nothing can ever be solved if we allow
our emotions to interfere with our rationality. |
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Safe
Road Home: Stop Your Teen from Drinking & Driving. Karen
Goodman & Kirk Simon, $16.50 (includes DVD, HBO documentary Smashed)
A brutally honest look at a crucial subject — this book and the
accompanying award-winning HBO documentary Smashed could
save your teen’s life. Drinking and driving tragedies are not accidents
— they can be prevented. Read this book, watch the film and start
talking with your teen now.
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The Second
Family: Dealing with Peer Power, Pop Culture, the Wall of Silence
and Other Challenges of Raising Today's Teens. Ron Taffel &
Melinda Blau, $15.50
The immense collective power of peer group and popular culture is
pervasive and often overwhelms pre-teen and teenagers' families. This
"second family" can be scary to adults, yet there are healthy
aspects that often go unrecognized. Dr. Taffel opens a door for parents
into this often bewildering and frightening world offering guidance
and sound advice while presenting us with the uplifting possibilities.
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The Secret Lives of Boys: Inside the Raw Emotional World of Male Teens. Malina Saval, $20.00
Journalist Malina Saval reveals the confessions, sadness, optimism and boundless resilience of male adolescents today. She asks “Who are these boys and what do they think of themselves?” and finds their answers encourage all of us to reconsider how young people think, dream and live. |
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The Secret
Lives of Teen Girls: What Your Mother Wouldn’t Talk about
But Your Daughter Needs to Know. Evelyn Resh, $18.95
In The Secret Lives of Teen Girls,
Evelyn Resh — a certified nurse-midwife, sexuality counselor,
and mother to a teenage daughter — explores the provocative
world of female adolescent sexuality. Resh explains how developing
a sexual identity — often without adult guidance or a
basic knowledge of what is happening physically and emotionally — can
have lifelong effects on a girl’s well-being.
In this insightful book, Resh confronts
serious issues of adolescence, including sex, eating disorders,
and substance abuse; as well as less serious but still troubling
issues like battles with parents over clothing and curfews, the
importance of being “cool,” and the complexity of
friendships. Drawing from both her professional and personal
experiences, Resh shares with us revealing, humorous, and occasionally
surprising anecdotes that parents of teenage daughters everywhere
will relate to. |
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Side by Side: the Revolutionary Mother-Daughter Program for Conflict-Free Communication. Charles Sophy, $16.99
Learn how to navigate and resolve even the most volatile conflicts and take your relationship to a whole new level. Side by Side offers a means to developing a strong and rewarding connection with your daughter for years to come. |
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Success
without College: Why Your Child May Not Have to Go to College Right
Now — and May Not Have to Go at All. Linda Lee, $17.95
Success without College is a groundbreaking
book that reveals the surprising facts of why many bright kids are
not suited for college (or at least not right after high school).
This accessible, knowledgeable book looks at the many positive,
creative solutions to the college dilemma. |
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Surviving Your
Adolescents: How to Manage and Let Go of Your 13-18 Year Olds.
Thomas Phelan, DVD $44.95; book $16.95
Living with a teenager is no picnic. There are times
when you must bite your tongue as they push towards independence.
Or, if you sense there is trouble, there are times when you must
take charge. This book gives parents a step-by-step approach that
will help end the hassles and offer concrete solutions. In Surviving
Your Adolescents, you will learn:
- What is normal adolescent behavior
- How to manage teenage risk-taking
- Exactly what problems require you
to "let go"
- What not to do
- The relationship between parent/teen
communication and safety
- The five ways to improve your relationship
- And more
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Teen Brain, Teen
Mind: What Parents Need to Know to Survive the Adolescent Years.
Ron Clavier, $21.95
Written by renowned psychologist Dr. Ron Clavier,
Teen Brain, Teen Mind examines the neurological changes in
the brain that underlie many of the emotions of young people. Clavier
argues that a clear understanding of the teenage brain is the key
we need to unlock the age-old mysteries of why our kids act the
way they act and think the way they think. From drug use and early
sexual activity to fashion and music, Clavier covers topics of relevance
to both teens and their parents. Along the way, he offers numerous
coping tips and strategies designed to ease tensions and improve
communications. |
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The
Teen Whisperer: How to Break Through the Silence and Secrecy of
Teenage Life. Mike Linderman & Gary Brozek, $16.25
Mike Linderman is a star in the making.
He wrestles cattle at the crack of dawn, then spends his days working
with the country's most troubled teens before coming home at night
to three healthy teens of his own. Where so many other therapists
can only offer futile advice to struggling parents, Linderman has
mastered a blend of down home honesty and military–like discipline––not
to mention a layer of trust and love very rarely found in the therapist's
office.
Most of the teens Linderman treats are
angry, abused, violent, and dangerous–they are children without
hope. Yet despite their difficult pasts, Linderman has achieved
an extraordinary success rate with these teens, helping them turn
their lives around and earning him the nickname "The Teen
Whisperer." Interacting with teens on their terms and
in their language, Linderman allows parents to see that in order
to help kids you must meet them at their level and treat them as
peers not subordinates. With powerful and effective words, he calls
on readers to understand that our teenagers deserve our love––not
our fear––and ultimately it is this unique and straightforward perspective
that sets him apart. It is this methodology, grounded in honesty
and integrity, that has led to his unparalleled success record with
some our country's most difficult youths. This is the story of that
success and how parents can use the lessons he's learned to heal
the troubled hearts of their own families.
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Teenage as a Second Language: a Parent’s Guide to Becoming Bilingual. Barbara Greenberg & Jennifer Powell-Lunder, $16.99
With these proven strategies, you can maintain good communication, healthy interaction and strong connections with your teen, no matter how rocky the road through adolescence is. |
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13 is the New 18 and Other Things My Children Taught Me While I Was Having a Nervous Breakdown Being Their Mother. Beth Harpaz, $17.99
A book for any parent of teens, this is a comical foray into today’s increasingly widening generation gap and one mom’s attempt to figure it all out with little guidance and a whole lot of misplaced guilt. |
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Too
Safe for Their Own Good: How Risk and Responsibility Help Teens
Thrive. Michael Ungar, $22.99 
Internationally respected social worker
and family therapist Michael Ungar tells us why our mania to keep
our kids safe is causing us to do the opposite - put them in harm’s
way. By continuing to protect them from failure and disappointment,
many of our kids are missing out on the “risk-taker’s advantage,”
the benefits that come from experiencing manageable amounts of danger.
In Too Safe for Their Own Good, Ungar inspires parents
to recall their own childhoods and the lessons they learned from
being risk-takers and responsibility-seekers, much to the annoyance
of their own parents. He offers the support parents need in setting
appropriate limits and provides concrete suggestions for allowing
children the opportunity to experience the rites of passage that
will help them become competent, happy, thriving adults.
In our mania to provide emotional
life jackets around our kids, helmets and seatbelts, approved
playground equipment, after-school supervision, an endless stream
of evening programming, and no place to hang out but the tiled
flooring of our local mall, we parents are accidentally creating
a generation of youth who are not ready for life. Our children
are too safe for their own good.
—From Too Safe for
Their Own Good
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What Do You Expect? She's a Teenager! Arden Greenspan-Goldberg, $16.99
A hope and happiness guide for moms with
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What It Takes
to Pull Me Through. David Marcus, $18.95
The Academy at Swift River specializes
in one of the toughest tasks a school can undertake: helping teenagers
in crisis regain their bearings. During a fourteen-month academic
term at the school, Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist David L. Marcus
witnesses the intense process that turns these kids around. In his
time on campus, Marcus gets to know a diverse and remarkable group
of teenagers: a former straight-A student reeling from the death
of her mother; a teachers' son grappling with anger over being adopted;
a southern girl immersed in drug abuse and unsafe sex and a boy
from Queens overwhelmed by depression. Granted full access to the
Swift River proceedings, Marcus is given the rare chance to observe
the students' struggles and see their transformations from the inside.
In What It Takes to Pull Me Through, he charts a path to
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When
I Was a Loser: True Stories of (Barely) Surviving High School.
John McNally, editor, $18.99
Candid, funny and painfully true, these
essays conjure up memories of those formative years. When I
Was a Loser is a wonderful reminder for parents and others
who work with teens, of the emotional highs and lows of adolescence.
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When
No One Understands: Letters to a Teenager on Life, Loss and the
Hard Road to Adulthood. Brad Sachs, $18.00
In this unique book, a therapist shares
his moving letters to a troubled, sometimes suicidal teen. The anguish,
loneliness and concerns shared by many teens – including relationships,
drugs and alcohol, parents, school, stress – are all addressed with
compassion and humility. Written for teens, parents and therapists,
this respectful volume inspires growth and healing during the sometimes
tumultuous days of adolescence. |
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When Things
Get Crazy with Your Teen: the Why, the How and What to Do Now. Michael
Bradley, $28.95
Offering practical “first response” advice, When Things Get Crazy with Your Teen tells you exactly what to do and what NOT to do in just about every scenario you’ll ever face with your kid - from messy rooms and monstrous moods to drug abuse and depression. |
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You Don't
Really Know Me: Why Mothers and Daughters Fight and How Both Can Win.
Terri Apter, $19.50
Author and psychologist Terri Apter takes a revealing look at why
mothers and their teenage daughters argue. It shows how conflict can
strengthen the relationship and may be a positive way for young girls
to deal with anger constructively and foster confidence and communication
skills. Apter gives concrete solutions; strategies for diffusing even
the hottest situations and hope for a more respectful, trusting relationship.
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Young People in Love and in Hate. Nick Luxmoore, $20.95
Using dozens of recognizable vignettes, psychotherapist and school counselor Luxmoore movingly explores the dramatic conflict between young people's loving and hating as they move from the intimacy of relationships with parents to relationships with boyfriends and girlfriends, frantically negotiating sex and sexuality, the meaning of love, faithfulness and unfaithfulness and many other issues vital to the adults these young people will become.
The book will be essential reading for professionals and parents struggling with the ferocity of young people's feelings where 'I love you!' and 'I hate you!' are never far apart. |
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Your Defiant
Teen: 10 Steps to Resolve Conflict and Rebuild Your Relationship.
Russell Barkley & Arthur Robin, $19.95
Russell Barkley and Arthur Robin-award-winning
researchers and coauthors of a leading book on defiant teens for
therapists have created a clinically proven self-help program that
parents can use to restore order and rebuild trust. Your Defiant
Teen demonstrates how to establish common ground, encourage
mutual respect, and introduce cooperative problem solving — all
without escalating the struggle for control. Much more than just
a way to keep the peace, Drs. Barkley and Robin offer parents a
means to teach their teenagers skills that will serve them well
for a lifetime. |
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You're Ruining My Life! Surviving the
Teenage Years with Connected Parenting. Jennifer
Kolari, $32.00 
In her new book, Jennifer Kolari applies
her empathic approach to parenting to what may be the most difficult time for
parents — adolescence. Combining her own experience as a therapist with the most
recent scientific information about mental processes, she explains what's going
on inside the teenage brain as well as what's going on in their world. This
understanding allows parents to de-escalate confrontations by applying
techniques such as CALM (Connect, Affect, Listen, Mirror) that bypass language
and go directly to the part of the brain that regulates emotion. By
understanding how teens think (or don't think) parents come to see why it's so
important to create and maintain a strong emotional bond that will allow their
almost grown-up children to correct and contain unacceptable behaviours. |
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Beautiful Boy: a Father's Journey through
His Son's Addiction. David Sheff, $19.95
The Blessing of a B Minus: Using Jewish
Teachings to Raise Resilient Teenagers. Wendy Mogel, $17.00
*Bringing Up Parents: the Teenager's
Handbook. Alex Packer, $22.95
But Nobody Told Me I'd Ever Have to Leave
Home: from Toddlers to Teens — How Parents Can Raise
Children to Become
Capable Adults. Kathy Lynn, $18.95
*The Canadian Student Financial Survival
Guide: a Comprehensive Handbook on Financing Your Education,
Managing Your Expenses & Planning for a Debt-Free Future. G. McWaters &
W. Sheldon, $21.95
The Connected Father: Understanding Your
Unique Role and Responsibilities During Your Child's Adolescence. Carl
Pickhardt, $16.95
Connected Parenting: How to Raise a Great
Kid. Jennifer Kolari, $19.00
Crashproof Your Kids: Make Your Teen a
Safer, Smarter Driver. Timothy Smith, $27.00
Decisive Parenting: Strategies That Work
with Teenagers. Michael Hammond, $35.95
Do I Get My Allowance Before or After I'm
Grounded? Vanessa van Petten, $17.50
Escaping the Endless Adolescence: How We
Can Help Our Teenagers Grow Up Before They Grow Old. Joseph Allen &
Claudia Worrell Allen, $29.95
From Binge to Blackout: a Mother and Son
Struggle with Teen Drinking. Chris Volkmann & Toren Volkmann,
$19.50
The Gap-Year Advantage: Helping Your Child
Benefit from Time Off Before or During College. Karl Haigler & Rae
Nelson, $17.95
Generation Me: Why Today's Young Americans
Are More Confident, Assertive, Entitled and More Miserable Than
Ever Before. Jean Twenge, $16.99
Get a Clue! A Parent's Guide to
Understanding and Communicating with Your Preteen. Ellen Rosenberg,
$22.50
Get Out of My Life, But First Could You
Drive Me and Cheryl to the Mall? A Parent's Guide to the New Teenager. Anthony
Wolf, $16.50
Getting to Calm: Cool-headed Strategies for
Parenting Tweens & Teens. Laura Kastner & Jennifer Wyatt,
$20.95
Girls Will Be Girls: Raising Confident and
Courageous Daughters. JoAnn Deak with Teresa Barker, $19.99
The Good Teen: Rescuing Adolescence from
the Myths of the Storm and Stress Years. Richard Lerner,
$14.95
Good to Go: a Practical Guide to Adulthood.
Kim Zarzour & Sharon McKay, $24.00
Helping Teens Who Cut: Understanding and
Ending Self-Injury. Michael Hollander, $16.50
Helping Your Transgender Teen: a Guide for
Parents. Irwin Krieger, $14.50
How to Deal with Your Acting Up Teenager:
Practical Help for Parents. Robert Bayard, $14.95
How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen
So Teens Will Talk. Adele Faber & Elaine Mazlish, $16.95; Audio CD $24.95
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I Wanna Be Sedated: 30 Writers on Parenting
Teenagers. Faith Conlon & Gail Hudson, editors, $21.50
I'd Listen to My Parents If They'd Just
Shut Up: What to Say and Not Say When Parenting Teens. Anthony Wolf,
$16.99
If Your Adolescent Has an Anxiety Disorder:
an Essential Resource for Parents. Edna Foa & Linda Wasmer
Andrews, $10.95
I'm, Like, So Fat! Helping Your Teen Make
Healthy Choices about Eating and Exercise in a Weight-Obsessed World.
Dianne Neumark-Sztainer, $18.50
In Love and In Danger: a Teen's Guide to
Breaking Free of Abusive Relationships. Barrie Levy, $16.95
Inside the Teenage Brain: Parenting a Work
in Progress. Sheryl Feinstein, $27.95
Just Say Know: Talking with Kids about
Drugs and Alcohol. $21.99
The Launching Years: Strategies for
Parenting from Senior Year to College. L. Kastner & Jenifer Wyatt,
$20.00
Letting Go with Love and Confidence.
Kenneth Ginsburg, $21.00
A Moment's Peace for Parents of Teens: 365
Rejuvenating Reflections. Patricia Hoolihan, $12.95
My Girl: Adventures with a Teen in
Training. Karen Stabiner, $32.95
My Teenage Werewolf: a Mother, a Daughter,
a Journey through the Thicket of Adolescence. Lauren Kessler,
$17.50
The Myth of Maturity: What Teenagers Need
from Parents to Become Adults. Terri Apter, $24.95
Now I Know Why Tigers Eat Their Young:
Surviving a New Generation of Teenagers, 3rd Edition. Peter Marshall,
$22.50
Parenting at the Speed of Teens: Positive
Tips on Everyday Issues. Ruth Tasswel, editor. $16.50
Parenting the Teenage Brain: Understanding
a Work in Progress. Sheryl Feinstein, $23.95
Parenting Your Out-of-Control Teenager: 7
Steps to Reestablish Authority & Reclaim Love. Scott Sells,
$18.99
The Path to Purpose: How Young People Find
Their Calling in Life. William Damon, $19.99
Positive Discipline for Teenagers:
Resolving Conflict with your Teenage Son or Daughter. J. Nelsen & L. Lott,
$18.95
Queen Bees & Wannabees: Helping Your
Daughter Survive Cliques, Gossip, Boyfriends & Other Realities of Adolescence.
Rosalind Wiseman, $18.00
Rage, Rebellion and Rudeness: Parenting
Teenagers in the New Millenium. G. Scott Wooding, $24.95
Ready or Not, Here Life Comes. Mel Levine,
$19.00
Reviving Ophelia: Saving the Lives of
Adolescent Girls. Mary Pipher, $17.50
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Safe Road Home: Stop Your Teen from
Drinking & Driving. Karen Goodman & Kirk Simon, $16.50 (includes DVD, HBO
documentary Smashed)
The Second Family: Dealing with Peer Power,
Pop Culture, the Wall of Silence and Other Challenges of Raising Today's
Teens. Ron Taffel & Melinda Blau, $15.50
The Secret Lives of Boys: Inside the Raw
Emotional World of Male Teens. Malina Saval, $20.00
The Secret Lives of Teen Girls: What Your
Mother Wouldn't Talk about But Your Daughter Needs to Know. Evelyn Resh,
$18.95
Side by Side: the Revolutionary
Mother-Daughter Program for Conflict-Free Communication. Charles Sophy,
$16.99
Stop Negotiating with Your Teen: Strategies
for Parenting Your Angry, Manipulative, Moody or Depressed Adolescent. Janet
Sasson Edgette, $21.00
Strong Mothers, Strong Sons: Raising the
Next Generation of Men. Ann Caron, $16.50
Success without College: Why Your Child May
Not Have to Go to College Right Now and May Not Have to Go at All.
Linda Lee, $17.95
Supergirls Speak Out: Inside the Secret
Crisis of Overachieving Girls. Liz Funk, $19.99
Surviving Your Adolescents: How to Manage
and Let Go of Your 13-18 Year Olds. Thomas Phelan, DVD $44.95; book
$16.95
Teen Brain, Teen Mind: What Parents Need to
Know to Survive the Adolescent Years. Ron Clavier, $21.95
The Teen Health Book: a Parents' Guide to
Adolescent Health and Well-Being. $27.00
Teen 2.0 - Saving Our Children and Families
from the Torment of Adolescence. Robert Epstein, $20.95
The Teen Whisperer: How to Break Through
the Silence and Secrecy of Teenage Life. Mike Linderman & Gary
Brozek, $16.25
Teenage as a Second Language: a Parent's
Guide to Becoming Bilingual. Barbara Greenberg & Jennifer
Powell-Lunder, $16.99
13 is the New 18 and Other Things My
Children Taught Me While I Was Having a Nervous Breakdown Being Their
Mother. Beth Harpaz, $17.99
Too Safe for Their Own Good: How Risk and
Responsibility Help Teens Thrive. Michael Ungar, $22.99
Trust Me Mom, Everyone Else is Going! The
New Rules for Mothering Adolescent Girls: Understanding and Surviving the
Social Life of Your Teenage Daughter. Roni Cohen-Sandler, $19.50
Tweak: Growing Up on Methamphetamines. Nic Sheff,
$19.99
Understanding Your Teenager's Depression:
Issues, Insights and Practical Guidance for Parents, Revised 2005. Kathleen
McCoy, $22.50
Unhappy Teenagers: a Way for Parents and
Teachers to Reach Them. William Glasser, $37.95
What Do You Expect? She's a Teenager! Arden
Greenspan-Goldberg, $16.99
What It Takes to Pull Me Through. David
Marcus, $18.95
*When I Was a Loser: True Stories of
(Barely) Surviving High School. John McNally, editor, $18.99
*When No One Understands: Letters to a
Teenager on Life, Loss and the Hard Road to Adulthood. Brad Sachs, $18.00
When Things Get Crazy with Your Teen: the
Why, the How and What to Do Now. Michael Bradley, $28.95
Wonderful Ways to Love a Teen…Even
When it Seems Impossible. Judy Ford, $22.95
Yes, Your Teen is Crazy! Loving Your Kid
without Losing Your Mind. Michael Bradley, $16.50
You Don't Really Know Me: Why Mothers and
Daughters Fight and How Both Can Win. Terri Apter,
$19.50
Young People in Love and in Hate. Nick
Luxmoore, $20.95
Your Adolescent: Emotional Behavioral and
Cognitive Development from Early Adolescence through the
Teen
Years. American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry. $25.99
Your Defiant Teen: 10 Steps to Resolve
Conflict and Rebuild Your Relationship. Russell Barkley & Arthur Robin,
$19.95
Your Ten to Fourteen Year Old. Louise Bates
Ames et al, $16.95
You're Ruining My Life! Surviving the
Teenage Years with Connected Parenting. Jennifer Kolari, $32.00
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